By David Sowemimo
Yesterday, I received a call from my niece, a Kyiv-trained physician. Her message was straightforward yet startling: “Uncle, please let your children start learning German.” Startled, I responded with a resolute, “God forbid!”
The few who overheard the conversation were taken aback. “How could you say such a thing?” they asked incredulously. I met their surprised faces with a stern gaze and repeated myself: “God forbid!”.
I knew my niece’s advice came from a place of care. Germany, grappling with a declining population, is welcoming migrants who can bridge the gap. Master their language, and you unlock a treasure trove of opportunities: free tuition, guaranteed jobs, subsidized living expenses, and the privilege of visa-free access to 192 countries with their passport.
I understand these facts well. Still, I am firmly convinced it is not the best path—not for my children, not for me, and not for you.
Global Citizenship vs. Local Responsibility
Let me clarify: I am not opposed to global citizenship. In fact, my family is currently immersed in learning French and plans to master four international languages within four years. Mastery of languages is a critical advantage in today’s interconnected world.
But should the goal of language acquisition be to escape to a “greener pasture” in pursuit of convenience and comfort? My answer remains a resolute No.
I do not seek convenience for my children. I seek their contribution.
The State of Nigeria
Yes, the Naira is in freefall, and our passport often holds little weight beyond our borders. Our educational qualifications are frequently scrutinized abroad, and the political leadership seems trapped in a cycle of ineptitude and corruption.
But is that the sum total of who we are as a nation? Is this brokenness all there is to Nigeria?
I have watched countless young Nigerians leave for the West, many never to return. I do not blame them. If I were in their shoes, I might do the same. The structured systems and ease of life abroad are enticing, providing stability and predictability.
But while they may find comfort, do they find purpose? The best life is not found in the unyielding order of foreign systems but in the challenges that allow you to think, create, fail, and rebuild.
The Role of the Next Generation
A broken bridge serves no one. Nigeria is a broken bridge. Yet, rather than abandon it, we must focus on fixing it. This is why I reject the notion of raising my children solely for their own convenience. They are part of the solution, not bystanders in pursuit of personal gain.
I do not hate the opportunities abroad, nor do I deny their appeal. But I firmly believe that the best way forward is to prepare the next generation to rebuild rather than retreat.
Hate me if you will, but mark these words: Nigeria will not rise by exporting its brightest minds in search of comfort. It will rise when those same minds choose to invest in its broken bridges.